David was a businessman with a huge experience ... especially regarding the human interactions.
He worked with so many clients ... one to one ... that after 20 years of work ... he knew more as a psychologist about how we must interact between us.
But still one day he writes me that he had enough with his business and the delays regarding the payments ... and wants as this ugly story .... just to end forever.
He was trying lots of tricks and even if i believe that through his life experiences he learnt more that i did ... regarding the human mind ... he wrote me because he saw i study the dance of our feelings and emotions.
His whole life was a balance of emotions.
In the morning ... checking his bank account he was
happy ... one hour later he became annoyed that a client owning him money by months was not answering his phone call ... then a new client was calling saying that he signs the contract with him .... and he was happy again ... and this was happening on and on and on.
It was all a non ending story.
He was jumping from good to bad vibes ... and from bad to good vibes ... 20 times a day ... and after years of doing that ... his soul became a ... ruin.
It was like ... this was the destiny of his life ... to live in a story that brings him happiness and unhappiness in the same time ... but the frequency of all those episodes were driving him crazy.
I was smiling reading his thoughts and feelings ... not really understanding why David was not seeing the way out of this story ... even if he had a huge experience with the human beings.
It was all a decision ... but he was not ready yet for that decision ... cause he had a very strong addiction ... the one of love for money.
In so many years of business he could just decide to stop working with the customers that are not serious... and choose only the ones that respect him and have good connection with them.
And even if he knew all those things ... the love for money was much powerful ... and he agreed to continue being in a story ... that was bringing him joy but also annoyed him ... and destroyed his vibe everyday.
In fact not the clients were ruining him emotionally ... but the fact that he could not get rid of the addiction for money .... and be more selective with his customers.
Loving every penny ... came from all the directions ... was a way of saying to the Universe ... “As long as the money are coming ... i agree to pay the price for that”.
So .... even if he knew that he was paying everything with the price of his vibe ... the decision of continuing was ... his own decision.
There was no one that could help him ... cause he just needed to cure himself of chasing every penny that was coming to his company.
The story of his business could be a nice one ... and also one of success, but he did not knew to focus just on the relationships that are bringing him a beautiful connection.
He was accepting all the ones that were fucking his vibe ... because of some extra money ... more than the ones came from the good clients ... which in fact was quite enough.
Curing himself of his addiction for money was the key ... and he knew it ... but David was doing nothing about it.
He was living a silly life ... jumping from happiness to unhappiness and from unhappiness to happiness ... just like in a cartoon movie.
There was almost no advice to give to him.
It was useless ... cause he knew the answer ... and i was just replying ... “David ... why do you want to wait another 20 years to take the decision that you need to take today?!”.
... and probably ... many of us ... we are doing the same as David ... in different areas of our lives.
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